Nutrition for Postpartum

One of the things that I hear often is that people are so excited to birth their baby because they want to go back to their pre-pregnancy eating habits, and while that is tempting, I’m sure, what if we looked at it as a transition to a more healthy you? If we were honest, we would probably admit that we all could stand to make some nutritional changes. What if I told you that what you eat impacts your long-term health? What if I said that our diet impacts us on a cellular level? What if you knew that you would feel better, have more energy, and boost your immune system? Maybe, we could make the changes that will impact our health in a way that would be life-changing. Life-changing for us and our children. I want to be very clear, I HATE diet culture. I feel passionate about educating people on how they can feel great, have energy, and build their immune systems. There is nothing worse than taking care of our babies when we are struggling with sickness.

I have a couple of resources that are my favorite. The book The First 40 days is chock full of information that will support your health and well-being during postpartum time. If I am being honest, we don’t do this well in the United States. In Bangladesh, some typical meals are kalijira bhorta or black cumin mash seasoned with garlic and mustard oil which is thought to stimulate lochia and increase milk supply. In Nigeria, some traditional postpartum foods are pepper-leaf soup twice per day. This is made with scent leaves, utazi, udz, uziza, and ginger. It is believed that the spices help to restore the uterine genitourinary system. In India they use tradional Hariyali foods like panjiri. Panjiri is a warm, roasted whole wheat pudding containing dried fruits, seeds, nuts, and spice-infused waters with carom and fennel seeds, stimulating lactation. “Whether these foods and practices have proven nutritional or medicinal properties and the science is not wholly conclusive, there is immeasurable value in nourishing the birth parent.” (New York Times) One undeniable thing is that unless there are cultural ties that are binding new parents to the postpartum period, carried over from family matriarchs or traditional birth workers, a lot of us are left going back to our ways of eating on the go, grabbing something quick so that we can continue with our day with little to no thought on how we can nourish our body and our babies.

Let’s look at some of the foods that can benefit postpartum time to replenish our reserves and promote health and healing.

Soups and hearty stews with curries made with bone broth-these foods supply collagen-building amino acids (glycine, proline, and hydroxyproline), which are essential in the healing of the perineal and pelvic floor. It is also high in electrolytes and micronutrients.

High-iron, high protein foods. Slow-cooked meat like pot roast or pulled pork. This next one will be hard for some people, although from a nutrient perspective, it is jam-packed. Organ meats. Liver, Kidney, and heart. Lilly Nichols has lots of great tips on how these things can be “hidden” in meals so that you are getting the benefits.

High-fat foods. Pork, ghee, fatty fish, nuts, and seeds. These are great for breast milk.

Omega-3 fats. Seafood, eggs, grass-fed beef. These foods are high in choline which is imperative for a baby’s brain development.

Iodine-rich foods. Fish/seafood or Seawood broths.

Soft cooked vegetables.

Well-cooked grains/starches. Oatmeal, sweet rice, sweet potatoes. When this is eaten with protein, it is excellent to stabilize blood sugar and energy.

When I did a simple google search, some of the recommendations of foods to eat postpartum were things like chicken noodle soup ( I don’t mind this one so much as if it contains veggies, bone broth, and protein which is nourishing to the body). Some of the other suggestions were salted crackers, beef jerky, and apples. I fear that when googling this, that may stick with you, and one might be led to think that a snack of crackers is sufficient, especially when our culture puts a strong emphasis on “getting back to our pre-pregnancy body.” We need to focus on nourishing our body, healing, and having the energy required to take care of a newborn.

Here are some additional suggestions of powerhouse foods to aid in recovery and leave you feeling nourished.

Whole grains (rice, millet, quinoa, oats, and amaranth

Nuts and seeds. (almonds, walnuts, flaxseeds, pumpkin seeds, and brazil nuts)

Healthy proteins (organic eggs, chicken, grass-fed beef, wild salmon, sardines)

Seaweed

Legumes that are soaked to prevent gas. (black beans, adzuki beans, and chickpeas)

Olive oil or Avocado oil for cooking

Bone broth

I think that what we need is knowing that there are foods that we can add that will nourish our body, build our immune system, and will taste good, all while allowing us to heal—adding things that will promote tissue healing, improve circulation and contain nutrients that support hormonal health and emotional balance in our postpartum recovery. The goal is not to hurry our postpartum time. You grew a human. That’s a big thing, and I think it is high time for our culture to recognize its impact on our bodies and minds. Take the time, don’t hurry, and make things that promote your health a priority. Parenthood is a long road full of ups and downs, and you can do this. Let’s create a foundation that prioritizes your health and well-being as well as your babies. You will be happy that you did.

XOXO-Holly

Makhijani, P. (2021, February 25). How Food Traditions Nourish New Moms. The New York Times. Retrieved February 11, 2022, from https://www.nytimes.com/2021/02/25/parenting/postpartum-food-traditions.html

M. (2020, March 18). Real Food Postpartum Recovery Meals: 50+ Recipes & Freezer Tips. Lily Nichols RDN. Retrieved February 11, 2022, from https://lilynicholsrdn.com/real-food-postpartum-recovery-meals/

Goodbye 2021.......

It has been a very busy year here at Breath and Birth MN! I have been to many births this past year, said goodbye to my oldest son as he graduated high school and now lives in Florida playing JR Hockey, homeschooled my five-year-old, and my middle son got his driver’s license. navigated my business and my family through this continued pandemic and have gone back to school myself. This year has been rewarding, challenging, inspiring, and well, hard. But, if you are anything like me, we keep going because that is really the only way. We rise up to meet challenges and celebrate the wins.

I am looking forward to the new year! There really is nothing better than serving families in their journey through pregnancy, labor, delivery, and postpartum. I am excited to share some of the things you will see in 2022!

  • Breath for Birth Classes. I have heard it at EVERY SINGLE birth that I have attended. Directed breathing. I have also seen the face of a laboring person give a very blank stare as they are trying to learn a new skill in the midst of trying to push their baby out. That is truly when I decided to put my over 20 years of breathwork into this class. We will learn how to use the core canister to help through this process. You will have a clear understanding of the different techniques to use to help your baby rotate, and how you can breathe a little easier in the process. Literally.

  • Prenatal Yoga will be an ongoing offering.

  • Climacteric: This is a labor of love. I am teaming up with Heather Christine of Holistic Continuum to bring this Menopause class to the masses. There is so little information available to women in regards to the changes that occur, and surprisingly enough, providers aren’t giving the information we ALL need. We will talk about all the things! Nutrition, hormones, movement, sleep, stress, and what to expect. We will share evidence-based information that women everywhere NEED. I know, I know, some of you may be thinking that is a far-off occurrence, and you can deal it with it later. I will tell you that I thought the exact same thing until I was peri-menopause at the age of 42. Right after I had my last child, trust me when I say, you don’t want to miss this!

  • Nutrition for Pregnancy: I am asked all the time about diet throughout pregnancy, and here is an astounding fact. Only 29% of US medical schools offer med students the recommended 25 hours of nutrition education. (Journal of Biomedical Education 2015). On average US medical schools offer only 19.6 hours of nutrition education across four years of medical school. What evidence shows us is that diet impacts long-term health and chronic disease. Look no further, learn about what foods impact you and your baby best. Coming Spring 2022.

  • Breath for Birth Core: After the birth of a baby, there are so many times that OB’s and midwives are giving the all-clear for a workout. I am here to tell you, oftentimes that is too soon, and knowing how to heal your body while easing back into a exercise routine is not easy. We need to be mindful of helping our body, not hurting our body. This will be a 8 week offering coming in the summer of 2022. Stay tuned.

  • Postpartum Planning: We spend so much time preparing for pregnancy and birth and sometimes postpartum gets left out. It is a critical time and knowing where to find resources regarding breastfeeding, nutrition, baby care, and caring for yourself can get forgotten. We will ensure that you have all the information that you need to help you to feel confident about bringing your baby home. Coming Spring 2022.

Class Info Here.

Lastly, I want to thank all of the families that welcomed me into their birth space this past year. There is no doubt in my mind that I have the best job in the world. Looking ahead into 2022, I have limited availability, so please reach out. Below is what is available going into next year.

January: Full

February: Full

March: Full

April: Full

May: Full

June: Full

July: Full

August: Full

September: 2 spots open

October: 2 spots open

November: 1 spot open

December: 1 spot open

XOXO-Holly

What is new?

It has been a while since I have posted! It's high time I let everyone know what's new, what's changed, and what is come. Since I last posted, there has been a change in my home and my business, and I am excited to share. If you are new here, you know that I have three boys: Oliver, who is 18, Henry, 17, and Everett, who is five. There is never a shortage of mild chaos in the home of three boys. Oliver has since moved to Florida to play Jr. hockey. We could not be more thrilled with the success he is having while focusing on skills and development. We deferred his admittance to the University of MN twin cities and the University of St. Thomas until the fall of 2022. Henry is now a junior in high school and will be taking his driver's test in just two days! I am breathing a little more deeply at the thought of having another teenage driver; however, it is the rite of passage. Everett is a very busy five-year-old who I homeschool, and he is loving a new homeschool co-op and begins hockey in about two weeks. It's all exciting stuff, but I would be lying if I didn't say that the days are long; however, the years are short.

I have also gone back to school. I am studying to become a naturopathic physician. I have given this a lot of thought, and it is the most excellent fit. A lot of you have asked me, "as a doula, why not become a midwife?" My answer to that is a little bit twofold. I LOVE being a doula. It is the best fit. This city is full of amazing midwives, and I am content to serve this birth community in the capacity of a doula. Naturopathic physicians treat the whole body. ND's treat holistically by looking at each patient as an entire person, rather than only focusing on one specific symptom, disease, or diagnosis. We consider all the factors that comprise a person's overall health, including genetics, environmental exposures, lifestyle, nutrition, and treatment of the whole body. We aim to restore balance. I will be working toward this program and seeking a practice that focuses on women's health. ND's can focus on a range of chronic health issues like diabetes, heart disease, allergies, digestive and respiratory illness, fertility issues, menopause, and many more. Nd's see patients in a primarily outpatient setting, and we have the opportunity to complete rotations with medical specialties in cardiology, pediatrics, pulmonology, internal medicine, and women's health. I am also able to continue to serve in the capacity of a doula. I have a firm belief that doula's impact positive birth outcomes in a big way.

I will continue to see birth clients; however, I will have a limited schedule due to my full course load and teaching schedule. I would encourage you to schedule yourself for a meeting if you are interested, as I am booked through early next year. I am currently offering Pre/postnatal Yoga, Breath for Birth classes, and doula services. The Breath for Birth classes that are offered is a labor of love for me. If you are looking for a class that will have the most significant impact on your birth, this is the class for you!

I am excited to share some classes that will be offered in the new year. I will be partnering up with Heather Christine of Holistic Continuum, and we will be offering a peri-menopause/menopause class. Many people will see this as something they don't need or don't have to worry about; however, you would be surprised. I was also of this mindset until I entered peri-menopause at 42. It's a good idea to plan and know-how to impact your body. Here's what a lot of people don't know. There is very little support for menopause in the women's health community, and people are looking for help and resources. Heather and I are here to provide that support. I will be offering a postpartum class. We spend so much time planning for the baby, but that postpartum time takes some preparation. I will have all the resources you need to bring that sweet baby home, and you will feel confident and know what to expect. Finally, I will be offering a postpartum core series. I want to start by sharing what this WILL NOT BE. We will NOT be focusing on weight loss! Hard no. This series will take you through how to get back into a routine that will support your core and pelvic floor as you recover in a safe and postpartum-appropriate platform. How do you get back to feeling like yourself and building strength in your core? That's the focus.

In the next few weeks, I will be preparing for the holidays. Christmas is my favorite time of year, and we are doing something a little this year. We will be observing advent and Epiphany. Each year we do Christmas school as part of our homeschool curriculum, and each year it feels rushed. I will be taking it slow and enjoying this season. There will be no rushing this year. From now until the end of the year, you will be able to find me in a few different places. You can be sure that I will have my head buried in textbooks, attending the last births of this year, teaching for a non-profit, preparing education to serve this community that I love so much, and spending time with the kids. As always, I am here to support you in the best possible way, and I look forward to continuing to lift families up and prepare them for the parenthood journey that awaits.

XOXO-Holly

What Self Care Means to Me.....

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We hear about self care all of the time. Get a massage. Spend time with friends. Take a long bath with a good book. Take some time for yourself. I will admit that when everyone started talking about the importance of self care, I did do a slight eye roll. Not because I felt it wasn’t important, but because it was something that I really couldn’t even comprehend, and a lot of this was wrapped up in my very limiting belief system. I am an achiever and have been ever since I was little. I thrived in environments where there was competition and knew exactly what I had to do. I said yes to everything. I was convinced that I had to do it all. In making everyone else happy, I was truly miserable. Exhausted. In my quest to everything perfectly, I was beginning to fall apart. I had to learn to say no. That one word changed my life. It’s honestly what allowed this photo you see of me on this blog post to be possible. My family took the most amazing trip where we visited the Badland’s, Yellowstone, and Glacier National Park. Without some no’s, this trip would not have been possible.

I want to take a minute to talk about what this means to me. It really consists of one word. NO. As I have gotten older, I have gotten really good at saying no. Let me break it down for you. I honestly don’t do anything that I don’t want to do. Now, I’m not talking about feeding the kids, taking the dog out, things that need to get done in order for my house to function, however I am not the only one that does these things. Not anymore. I learned that delegating, asking for help, and giving other people things to do works really well, and not only in the moment, but everyone is a little happier. Sure in the moment, my 16 year old son complains briefly about having to take our dog outside, but he does it. I have learned that just because I am not the one doing it all does not mean that I am not the perfect wife, mother, or business owner It just means that I have gotten smart about my time, and EVERYONE CONTRIBUTES.

So let’s talk about saying no. Here is an example. If I get invited to a small gathering, and I would rather sit at home and read a book. I read the book. If I am making my schedule for clients and decide that in a certain month I am not going to take more than two clients, that is the number that I stick to. Oh, and another thing, I don’t feel bad about it. When I tell you that I don’t do anything that I don’t want to do, I mean it. Now, I am not rude in declining invitations, I simply thank people for the invitation, and let them know that I am not able to make it. I don’t say no, and then defend that decision. EVER. See, I don’t need to defend the answer. I just don’t. I also don’t need to make up a lie to make it seem as if I would come (insert best excuse here), I simply say thank you for thinking of me, I am not able to make it and move on. Another little reminder for you. PEOPLE DON’T CARE. I was saying yes to all of the things because I did not want to hurt anyone’s feelings. What I realized is that people understand, and move on. My attendance is not going to make or break their event. It just isn’t..

I have become very selfish with my time. It is the one thing that you never get back. Think about that. Once you spend time doing something, you never get it back. Honestly, I am to old to waste time. I want to spend it with the people that I love the most, doing things that I love. That’s really all that it comes down to. Saying no should not be a negative thing, it should be considered self care in every way, shape and form. I have received offers of employment over the years which would require me to return to a corporate environment since becoming a doula that I have turned down. I would have made a lot more money, however I would also be traveling, taking a lot more time away from my family, and I am not willing to give up that time. It just isn’t worth it to me. Being a doula is one of the greatest joys that I have found professionally. I would never go back to a corporate environment. This work matters. It matters to the families that I serve, it matters to the community, and birthing people need support and education. There really isn’t anything better. I no longer worry about crazy, outlandish sales goals, an environment filled with so much pressure that I can’t sleep at night. I now worry about the families, their babies, and how can I make the best impact on my community by doing this work. That matters. That’s what is important to me. Do my families understand the physiology of birth? How can I impact a safe and healthy delivery for all of my clients.

Saying no has also allowed me to say yes to the things that I want to do. I will be going back to school at the end of August 2021. I will be starting a pre med program working towards becoming a Naturopathic Physician. I was a little worried that I was a to old to take this on. I will most likely complete this program as my oldest son is graduating from college. He is currently taking a year off to play JR hockey and has deferred his enrollment at the University of MN until 2022. We will have a grad celebration together is my hope. My saying no to other things is allowing me to say yes to this. Take it from someone who said yes for too long, saying no will serve you better, I promise.

XOXO-Holly

5 Must Eat Foods During Pregnancy....

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Trying to find out what to add to our meals can be nothing short of frustrating, and trying to get nutritional advice while pregnant is even more so. I want to help take some of the confusion out of this. What can we add that is simple and really packs a nutritious punch? How much? How often? Not to mention the sometimes ever present nausea. There are few remedies that I have written about in other blog posts about morning sickness and how to navigate that, but once that passes what can you add. Simple. See my five must add foods below!

  1. Eggs! There is a lot of confusion around eggs. Let me clear this up for you. Recent research has disproven the theory that dietary cholesterol increases the risk of heart disease. (Lily Nichols, Real Food for Pregnancy) Eggs are a superfood. They are full of choline. Choline has benefits to your developing baby, Choline has been found to have as much benefit as folate. It can help with with brain development, and preventing neural tube defects. (Lily Nichols) Eggs are also rich in DHA. All eggs are not created equal. Eggs from pasture raised chickens contain more Vitamin A, E, and D. I love these because it’s super easy to grab a hard boiled egg, or however you like to prepare them. They are readily available and easy to grab.

  2. Salmon. Specifically wild caught. Farmed fish is often contaminated with PCB’s, dioxins and other unwanted chemicals. Cold water fish is very beneficial during pregnancy.. Fatty fish like salmon also contain high levels of brain boosting Omega 3 fat, and DHA. They are also one of the few foods that are rich in vitamin D. One serving delivers two thirds of daily immune boosting Vitamin D.

  3. Leafy Greens: This is probably the most obvious on the list. Greens have a high amount of Folate. They also contain high amounts of Vitamin C, beta-carotene, fiber, B vitamins and trace minerals. Researchers have found 45 different flavonoids ( a type of antioxidant) in Kale alone! Greens also have high amounts of vitamin K1,k which play a important role in normal blood clotting. A thing to remember is again, organic is better.

  4. Bananas. Bananas contain a high number of electrolytes. Minerals such as potassium, sodium and magnesium also help with energy and fluid balance. This fruit is also recognized as a prebiotic which means that it fuels healthy gut bacteria. There on the go portable quality also makes it really easy to grab and bring anywhere.

  5. Nuts. This is like a a trifecta food. Protein, fiber and healthy fats. 30 almonds for example have the highest calcium count plus tons of zinc, B vitamins, and vitamin E. 15 Pecans for example would be the best natural sources of beta-sitosterol which could help lower cholesterol. They are also a great source of magnesium. Nut butter is also an option, but try to stick to two tablespoons and go natural. This will help to avoid added sugars which can cause the blood sugar to spike.

The leafy greens, bananas and nut butters can also be easily thrown into smoothies so if you are not a fan of the leafy greens, you wouldn’t even know that they are there. Click here to find some of my favorite smoothie recipes! There is no time to focus on functional health like when we are pregnant, and eating healthy can taste great. Really. These easy to add foods really will make a difference!!

XOXO

Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction (SPD pain) What is it???

Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction or Pelvic Girdle Pain happens when the ligaments that keep your pelvic bone aligned during pregnancy become too relaxed and stretchy early in pregnancy. As a birthing person gets closer to delivery, things are supposed to start loosing up, but sometimes this happens a little early. Diagnosed SPD occurs in about 1 in 300 pregnancies, although some thing that up to 25% of women will experience SPD. I think that the higher number is more accurate. I hear about this pain a lot from my clients, and often they have experienced it for some time and think it is just a normal symptom that accompanies pregnancy. Just your friendly reminder to mention things that seem out of the ordinary, or anything that causes pain. Pregnancy is a condition that means that you need to suffer. There are things that you can do to help this.

The most common symptom is pain while walking. It’s a wrenching pain. I’ve had people describe it as if they feel like their pelvis is being pulled apart. Usually the pain is the pubic area in in some, it radiates to the upper thighs. It almost feels like your thighs are exhausted. I can remember in my pregnancy with my second child, I was walking pushing a stroller to the park that was one block away, and reaching the park and having to sit down. It was as if the pain and exhaustion in my legs could not go one more step. I HAD to rest. This is not to say that this will be the case with everyone who has this pain, however that it is how it felt for me.

So, what gives? Who is the culprit for this pregnancy related pain? Relaxin. Now, we love Relaxin! It’s the hormone that loosens things up, specifically loosens the the ligaments around your pelvic bone so that your baby can make their way out to meet the world. Sometimes it get’s started a little early and causes movement a little early. The good news? Typically this resolves itself after your baby is born. What can you do to feel more comfortable? Here a couple suggestions.

  • Talk to your provider to find out if what you are feeling is indeed SPD pain.

  • Sit down when getting dressed, avoid standing on one leg. When getting out of the car, swing both legs out of the door and stand that way. Don’t set one leg out of the door and stand. BOTH legs out, then stand.

  • Heating pads or ice pack, alternate. Heating pads should be used for short amounts of time.

  • Pelvic Support Belts can provide additional support. I recommend this one.

  • Make a chiropractic appointment.

  • See a Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist.

  • When getting up in the morning, roll to your side, use your arms to push yourself up, and swing both legs onto the floor.

I just want to remind people that just because something may seem common, that does not mean normal. Know that this to will pass, and paying attention to how you move your body will help with managing the comfort. The great news is that as stated above, it usually stops once baby is born! As always, I’m rooting for you and here to support you any way I can.

XOXO

The Fourth Trimester......

“Make sure to rest when the baby rests. Don’t hold your baby all the time. Stop snapping at everyone. You look so tired, you should take a break. How’s the baby? How’s your partner? You look great seeing that you just had a baby.” That one is my favorite. Honestly, what the hell? How about we not comment on how a new mom looks? Rarely, and mean rarely is the first question in conversation, “How are you doing? How can I support you?” Bring a meal, send a text letting someone know that you are thinking of them, because here is the thing, the Fourth Trimester is hard. I remember thinking that I made a mistake. I couldn’t do it. I had never been so tired in my entire life. I also felt like I was mourning my old life. Now hold on before you come for me. Yes a child is a blessing, and yes I LOVE MY CHILDREN. That being said, I spent so much time getting ready for this baby, and once he was here, I felt a little lost.

There is no shortage of people who will give you advice. Total strangers still feel compelled to make comments, and most are not so helpful. But, some will change your life. With my first child, I had to run out to Target, but here’s the thing. When you have a brand new baby, you really don’t just run anywhere. I was filled with anxiety, my son screamed in his car seat the whole way there. I realized once I got there I had no idea how to set the carrier in the cart, and I was exhausted. As I made my way to the baby aisle, I all of sudden realized I had no idea why I was even at Target. I could not remember what I so urgently needed. As Oliver cried in the cart, and I stared blankly in the baby aisle, a woman said to me “It get’s easier. I promise. You are doing a great job.” She then asked me what I was looking for. I had no idea. I told her that I couldn’t remember. She then said, “that happened to me all the time, and when I got here and couldn’t remember, I just grab diapers, because I will always use those.” As I stood crying with a total stranger at Target, I felt seen, not alone, and that I had hope that I COULD indeed get through all of it. A short exchange that lasted maybe three minutes had the power to change my perspective. That encounter has stayed with me. There will be hard days, but there will also be days where you feel like you were born to raise this child. Those are the moments as you move through this journey that keep us grounded, and that allow us to keep going.

There are things that you can do that will help. Be patient, and I know that it is easier said than done when you are in the thick of it, but there is a lot going on, and it is hard. The single most important thing that you can do for yourself is take the help. When someone asks what you need, tell them. Most people genuinely want to help, and there is no shame in taking that help. Below are a couple more tips that can ease the transition, and know that it is a transition.

  • If you are struggling in any way shape or form, reach out. There are a lot of organizations that specialize in the fourth trimester and they are able to provide resources and referrals when needed. Postpartum Support International is amazing.

  • Breastfeeding support can be the best thing that will 100% change your journey if you need help. IBCLC’s ae extremely knowledgeable and are trained in all things human milk. Please don’t rely on the Facebook Mom Groups to point you in the right direction with this one. It is to important, and a lot of the advice is terrible. I love Bellflower Lactation and Oasis Lactation Services. They are the absolute best and offer in person as well as virtual appointments and accept some insurance. Make the call.

  • Let’s talk nutrition. I tend to love a meal delivery service in the first week post partum. One that comes prepared, full of nutrition, and tastes great. My go to is SAKARA. They have 2, 3, or 5 day meal plans, and while they are not the cheapest on the market, they are the best. I have done their meal plan programs several times and it is a great way to ensure that I am getting the nutrition that I need, and I love that I don’t have to think about it. It arrives to the door, and all three meals for each day are ready to go. It is worth every penny. They also have items like granola that I have on auto ship because it is just that good. Having meals like this that are nutrition focused make it easier for you to focus on baby, and healing. Use Code XOHOLLY for 20% off.

  • If you want to ensure that you have food ready to go, and meal delivery is not in budget,( I get it, while I would love to do it 5 days a week, I need to be fiscally responsible) there are some amazing websites that I love that make healthy meal prep a simple solution. Two of my favorites are AverieCooks and Downshiftology. If you have room in the freezer, start making things around 30 weeks and toss them in the freezer so that the stress of preparing food the day of is not something you need to worry about.

  • HIre a Postpartum doula. They are an amazing resource to get your through the first few weeks, and really make the transition process easier. You can find a postpartum doula by visiting Doula Match to find one in your area.

Please know that there are resources there to support you in this journey. You are no alone, although some days it may feel like this. Here is what you should know, this will be the hardest job that you have ever had. You will not get a yearly increase. You may not even get a thank you. You will however get paid in hugs and kisses most days. Some days you won’t get a shower, and some days you will miss your old life. I want to remind you that the hard days are temporary. They really are. There is no shame in asking for support, it is the best thing that you can do. I tell my clients that I will always tell them the truth, so that is my commitment to you as well. You can do this. We can do hard things, and I believe in you.

XOXO

Why Childbirth Ed is Important........

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I’m going to be honest, Mom Groups on Facebook are the last place I like to hang out. The terrible advice runs rampant! It is like watching a train wreck, not to mention some of the advice is just plain dangerous. One of the most common questions that I see is “Do I really need a Childbirth Ed class?” Most of the answers are things like this…”It’s just a waste of money.” “Just ask your Dr.” Or my personal favortite, “I didn’t and I was just fine.” What does that even mean. Here’s a question that I have for you….”Would you take your car apart without taking some sort of class?” Nope. So the answer to “Do I really need to take a childbirth Ed class?” Yes. Yes you do.

The biggest thing that you should learn is what the birth process looks like, what to expect, and what to ask. What is a epidural and how is it administered? What is skin to skin? What is Pitocin? What is a Foley Bulb? What are comfort measure’s.? What is a Bishop Score? The list goes on and on. Here is the truth, if we understand the physiology of birth, we are better off in the process. Most people don’t. How you work with your body during the process of birth is a must. Do you know where you want to birth? Why is that important? How can you breathe to birth your baby? These are the components that you will understand after taking a Childbirth Ed. class.

Let’s talk about the difference between a Childbirth Ed class that is offered through your hospital and why it looks very different from one that is offered through a private organization. The hospital led classes will lead you to believe that you need to go along with what they are telling you. You aren’t taught what to ask, or given many choices. That is on purpose. You will be educated on how the hospital and their providers do birth. Often medicated births, inductions and c-sections will be discussed. You will also receive a laundry list of things you can’t do. I’m not saying that hospital protocols and locations are not the place that you want to birth your baby. I had all three of my children in a hospital, However, in terms of understanding what all your options are during the birth process, the education that you will get there is a little biased.

Some of the benefits of Childbirth Education classes are listed below.

  • Childbirth classes will help you build confidence in your ability to give birth.

  • It builds a sense of community as you are with other expecting parents whether virtually or in person. You are able to ask questions to the educator and not feel so alone in the journey.

  • You will have an understanding of how birth works and what to expect.

  • Acquire the knowledge you need to make the best decisions for your family.

  • A Childbirth Ed class will help you manage the expectations you have of your birth.

In February of 2016 a study presented at the Society of Maternal-Fetal Medicine’s annual meeting showed that birthing people who took a childbirth education class or had a birth plan were more likely to have a vaginal birth than those who didn’t. While the exact reasons for these results are unclear, they do suggest that more preparation before childbirth does have benefits.

Things to look for in a class:

  • Birthing techniques. Hynobirthing. Bradley Method. Breath.

  • Pain Management Strategies.

  • Physiology of birth.

  • Comfort measures.

  • How to advocate for yourself.

  • Breastfeeding

If you ask me, a Childbirth Ed class is well worth the investment. Again, I wouldn't take the engine of my care apart without a class, and you should feel confidant about walking through one of the most important journey’s of your life. A Childbirth Ed class will serve you well, I promise.

Register for a Breath for Birth Class here.

How SAKARA Changed How I Eat.........

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First, full disclosure. I am a brand ambassador for SAKARA. That means that I receive compensation for links provided to you. Let me tell you how this relationship came to be. In my search to be able to provide my clients with healthy and easy options for clean eating during pregnancy, I found SAKARA. I was writing blog posts and referring clients to their website long before I was an ambassador. In doing this, I looked to see if they had an affiliate program, which I applied for. In all honesty, I was not even confidant that I would be accepted, and after a few weeks, I received the email that invited me into the program. What I want to share with you is that there are currently only 400 ambassadors in the world. That means they, like myself choose partnerships wisely. My commitment to you is that I WILL NEVER PARTNER with a company that does not serve my clients and align with my brand just to get paid. That is my commitment to you. Now that we have that out of the way, let’s get started. . Use my code XOHOLLY for 20% off your first order, should any of these products speak to you.

Whitney and Danielle started SAKARA due to their need for healthy food. Whitney had a hectic career and skin issues, and Danielle had focused on weight loss in an unhealthy way. You can read more of their story here. One of the things that I love most, is there is SCIENCE behind the way we nourish our body. And, it works. Through eating their meals, my body began to change. Before SAKARA I had constant bloat, exhaustion, and had suddenly developed eczema. I was in fact pretty miserable, and my poor diet was not helping. With SAKARA I had actually began to heal my gut. I decided to study nutrition and am almost done with my certification. In looking at other food delivery options, I found this one to be the cleanest and most beneficial to the body. And what’s amazing they offer much more than just meal delivery. Their website and SLIFE Magazine has recipes, and articles on how you can live the SAKARA life without always relying on their meal delivery. I order the meals once every 8-12 weeks, and use their cookbook and other resources and products to continue to take care of my body through nutrition. If you have been following along here for a while, you know that I am all about simple and easy, and SAKARA meets those needs for me and my family.

My favorite products are listed below:

  • The Meal Programs: These come in 2, 3, or 5 day options. The food is healthy and tastes fantastic. I never thought in a million years that I would love eating this healthy, and after doing their 3 day my body came to crave this diet. It it amazing!

  • The Beauty Bar: I am always on the go, and these are a great thing to throw in my bag. A high-fiber, low-sugar bar with 10g of clean, plant-based protein, it is an amazing snack option. It is also really pretty, just an added benefit.

  • The Beauty and Detox drops: Designed to boost glow, Beauty Water Drops deeply hydrate your cells with naturally-occurring trace minerals missing from tap water

  • Detox Water Drops are the easiest way to up your intake of daily greens and reap the benefits for digestion and detoxification. Who couldn’t use great skin and more greens??

  • The Metabolism Super Powder: This Sakara Life best-seller fires up your metabolism, stabilizes blood sugar, eliminates bloat and decreases puffiness* The perfect remedy for metabolic slowdown caused by age, diet, stress. The one thing that I really notice is that it cuts my sugar cravings down to almost nothing.

  • Granola: My favorite is the dark chocolate, and this is wat is in the chocolate: Ashwagandha to balance cortisol and alleviate adrenal fatigue (aka stress), dark chocolate to raise mood-lifting serotonin and provide age-fighting antioxidants and Brazil nuts for hormone-balancing selenium. The three pack is a great way to try all of them and at $48 you really can’t go wrong.

  • Cook Book: Eat Clean, Play Dirty: When I said that they make it easy to continue to eat clean, this cook book is fantastic. I am able to continue eating the rainbow and having it taste great! It’s my go to now, and if you only order one thing, this is it!

Anyone that knows me knows that I LOVED junk food. The more over processed, the more I loved it. Sugar. It was a problem, I ate it all the time. SAKARA completely changed the way I eat, and how I view food. My body craves it, and I feel so much better. So yes, when anyone ever asks me about food, if they want simple and easy, and nutrition backed by science…..I will always tell people about how SAKARA was life changing for me, and I am forever grateful.

What you need in your Hospital/Birth Center Bag........

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I am a huge fan of simple, and easy. There are hundreds of lists telling you what to pack, and honestly…in my opinion, there is a lot of terrible advice when it comes to birth in general, but the hospital bag packing…. yikes! I want you to remember one thing, what you bring, you also need to bring home. It sucks to need a gigantic luggage cart that you need to make several trips with in order to leave, and frankly, your birthing location will have most of what you need. My thoughts on bringing a lot of personal items in your bag, less is more. 100% There are lists out there that will have you pack everything from your breast pump to your favorite pillow. Now, if you absolutely need your pillow, bring it. My thoughts on bringing things like your favorite pillow are as follows….hospitals are dirty. They are. People normally go there when they are sick. I can tell you what I am not going to do, bring my favorite pillow into that environment. No way! That feels a little gross to me personally. So let’s get to it, and make this super simple!!

  • Extra long phone charger

  • Lip Balm

  • Toothbrush and Tooth Paste

  • Pony tail Holders

  • Hairbrush

  • Portable Speaker for your playlist

  • Nursing Bra

  • Comfy Jammies

  • Socks or Flip Flops

  • Glasses and or Contacts

  • Deodorant

  • Shampoo/Conditioner and body wash

  • Car set installed

  • Honey Sticks

  • Insurance Cards

  • Phone

  • Camera (although most cameras in your phone do a lovely job)

  • Birth Plan

  • Breast Pads

  • Insurance Cards

  • Baby blankets for on the way home ( depending on the time of year) however I would bring at least one).

  • Extra comfy Underwear. I would just use the mesh ones that are provided, I think thost are best, and grab a couple to take with you.

  • Baby going home outfit

  • Medications and Prenatal Vitamins

  • Unscented lotion or oil ( I love this one, and a little goes a long way! )

  • Gatorade. Normally I don’t love this stuff, but with the electrolytes and sugar, I have seen it work wonders during labor and delivery.

  • Snacks: Here are some of my favorites. ( SAKARA Granola, use the link for 20% off your first order. Nuts, Crackers, yogurt, Apple sauce pouches, protein or dried fruit bars) Think simple and easy and quick to grab.